just because
Because of the lack of words to say or explain the things we do or say, we just make the simple escape of "just because…" or "yon lang.." We simply can’t explain. Sometimes we expect others to understand nalang or just let go of the issue. We get angry if they insist but then they also have a right to know.
It happened to me the other day and I was on the receiving end. I simply could not, would not understand why the other person could not explain just giving me a stony silence. Well, not exactly stony, but ignoring me so that the matter could come to rest.
It took me two days to come to terms with this silence. I’m not used to this but I realize that I myself do it sometimes. When I lack words to explain, when I’m cornered and most of all when I’m at fault.
Prayer helps a lot. I realize that God is good all the time and simply say that maybe its what He wants. He has His reasons, maybe to humble me, to try my patience.
Conclusion: Silence helps. Just let go.
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